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Your job, throughout your entire life, is to disappoint as many people as it takes to avoid disappointing yourself.

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She was surrounded by people, she says, who not only didn't "get" her, they were actively hostile. And she was reminded of something she told herself when her marriage felt untenable: "The door is not locked. It's something that applies, metaphorically, to so many things in our lives that feel un-leave-able.

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The toxic boss we think we Am i the problem in my relationship quiz to continue to please because "it's a tough job market out there". The cruel friend we continue to tolerate because her cruelty is couched in assurances that she just wants us to be happy. The parent who demands our loyalty because "look at all I've done for you". And yes, the marriage.

The marriage that now bears the mark of infidelity.

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Believing it is locked keeps us trapped. It keeps us tolerating the intolerable. It keeps us responsible for everyone else's happiness. I told myself that my children needed stability, which isn't untrue.

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But it held me in place. It kept me from even testing the door to see it gave, even an inch.

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I don't regret staying. But it was only when I realized that I wasn't trapped, that staying was a choice I could make did I develop the self-respect to begin making demands. If I'm going to stay in this marriage, I need total honesty. If I'm going to stay in this marriage, here are my rules. Maybe you need reminding that the door is not locked. You have choices and they run Valatie NY housewives personals spectrum — from leaving entirely, to a trial separation, to rebuilding together.

And you have so many other choices too. To quit that job that makes you feel useless and unvalued.

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To a group of people who share your interests. To find a good therapist.

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To leave a lousy one. To lay down boundaries with friends, parents, children that give you the space you need to love both you and them Wife gives head. A locked door is a story we told ourselves.

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The door is not locked, my secret sisters. It Chula vista dating was. It was very clear to each of us who felt Women looking sex tonight Watts Bar Dam Tennessee about going back to work and who felt going back to work was insane given the world's events. I remember the psychologists in the room saying there is no right answer — there is only the right answer for you.

They're called "turnover" events, according to the psychologists — events in which circumstances change everything. They can be happy, such as the birth of .

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Or they can be catastrophic. A car accident, a pandemic.

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Or, yes, betrayal. Betrayal might be invisible to those around us but it shifts the earth beneath our own feet.

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It changes everything. It's different than marital breakdown because that often happens slowly.

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Betrayal blindsides us. Even if we knew something felt off, we never quite imagined this. In the early days, of course, it's enough to get through a day. It's enough to brush our teeth, get dressed, manage to Love in want friends too care for kids or do a reasonable facsimile of our job.

But with time, we face different choices.

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If we have chosen to remain in our marriage, what is that going to look like? What do we need in order to stay? If we have chosen to leave, well, what does that look like? What I'm suggesting — what Penelope Trunk, a trauma survivor, and the psychologists she quotes are suggesting — is that these Sex personals MD Brookeville 20833 hold an opportunity for us, if we're willing to consider it: To choose a different way of living in this world. These choices don't have to be huge to the outside world.

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For instance, after discovering my husband's infidelity, I became completely intolerant of dishonesty. I had known that he tended to lie. About stupid stuff. I would hear him on the phone with his mother explaining that he wasn't coming to visit her because he was "swamped with work" or the "kids have so much going on". I knew that if he wanted to visit her, we could have easily made that work. But the truth was he didn't want to visit her. He hated visiting her.

But that truth remained hidden even from him. And so he lied. And I let him. After D-Day. But not only was I intolerant of dishonesty in him and others but in myself. I noticed that I, Hot teen sexting, often chose dishonesty over discomfort.

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And though that might not seem like a transformative change, don't be fooled. It absolutely is. Being honest with myself and others has utterly changed my relationships. Resentment has a much harder time taking root when we're honest with ourselves and others. Of course, there are the far more obvious changes we make.

The job we leave, the job we seek, the friends we edit into or out our lives. And while I am not, will not, even look at infidelity as a good thing, I can recognize that it offers us something, if only the freedom to make different choices.

When it feels as though we're living in ruins, why not see what we can construct? My friend's husband is a sex addict.

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And those of us who've dealt with addicts know that it can be a long road to recovery. That they are likely to "slip" as the recovery community refers to it, which hardly reflects just how excruciating it is. One of the things my friend is participating in, as she and her husband try and recover from this latest "slip" is impact statements. And after she has digested this and perhaps cried an ocean of tears she presents what's called an Impact Statement, not Big fat booty xnxx all unlike what crime victims submit to courts in order to influence sentencing and have an acknowledgement of their pain.

It got me thinking that, whether or not we're dealing with an addict, we might all consider writing an Impact Statement. It would serve two purposes: 1 Make clear how deep and broad the pain of his betrayal and 2 Force us to acknowledge all the ways in which we've been affected. Far too often, I think, we fail on both s — to make him face what he's done, or face it ourselves. It could be When a man is attracted it's too much. That was the case for me when my husband's sex addiction counsellor wanted him to do a "full disclosure" session.

By then, I'd been grilling my husband for weeks and I knew what I wanted to know.